hot chocolate for two

They say chocolate is an aphrodisiac, and it even does help stimulate the mind during intense reading at night or when u need to concentrate on studying, that is why I remember during my board review before, I bought packs of black Hershey's chocolate bars, and It does help me keep awake at night but unfortunatelt it did not help me lose weight. hehe
I love hot chocolate drinks, I really do. I mean I would give up a lot of things for a nice talk and some hot choco, simple as that. I guess stimulating conversations with people who blow your mind at times, satisfies me.
The whole week, friends of mine would often ask me about things about love and relationships (hellow? like I know a lot, im the one who's single), that sometimes the person they like, date or commited act like jerks at times..how sometimes, the guy you are inlove with, does act so insensitive, or does he not?
I don't want to be a hypocrite, but I do hate most men when they pretend they aren't romantic, blah blah (gosh, spare me the BS), they pretend they don't miss you or whatever they want to show off, its crazy, but sometimes I realize, we often expect things a lot from the people we love. we measure their love for us, by the size of attention or care we recieve from them, but sadly not all men are the same. I guess its unfair coz sometimes, people do have limitations..sometimes they cannot measure up the way we expect them to be. There are people who just tend to be not so expressive or emotional, that they become insensitive to our eyes and no matter how they try to please us, no one can be really that close to perfection, and the more we expect them to be better, the more we only pressure them to be something they are not intending to be. the cycle just keeps going on and on, the more we tend to find ourselves unhappy of the situation..because we simply cannot satisfy our own judgements.